Tuesday, December 31, 2013

January RE News & Notes


December was amazing at for Religious Education at Piedmont UU Church.  Our students and teachers put together a wonderful pageant celebrating the birth of Jesus that was performed for both the University Gathering and Salisbury Gathering.  In addition to performing in our pageant our students also helped to create our set pieces, costumes and star decorations for the sanctuary.  I’d like to say a big thank you to everyone who took part in the pageant as an actor or actress or working behind the scenes to make everything run smoothly.  Heidi Hagi, Connie Byrne, Susie Benner, Stephanie Nelson and Jason Gray put in an outstanding effort to make our pageant a success by leading our children in craft making, doing a little craft making of their own and transporting a mountain of stuff all over North Carolina.  Thanks for making this all possible!

In the month of January we have two major events coming up for our Religious Education classes.  Our classes start back on January 5th after our Holiday break with all of our classes meeting as normal in the month of January except for January 19th when there will be a children’s chapel for the students during the service.  Rev. Justin will lead the children’s chapel, and all classes are invited!

On Sunday, January 12th after the first and second service there will be a Religious Education Feedback session in the classrooms adjacent to the sanctuary.  Everyone in the community - teachers, students, family members, people who just want to talk about kid stuff - is welcome to come to come discuss what they have enjoyed and what they think can be improved about our Religious Education Program at Piedmont UU Church.  Come make your voice heard!  I’ll throw in some snacks if that will seal the deal.

See you on Sunday!

Rev. Justin

Have You Ever?


Have you ever read an article that spoke to you but now you have forgotten where you read it?  That has happened to me.  The article probably was in an issue of our UUA magazine, something I saw on the internet or in a book that we have read in one of our small group ministries.

Regardless of where it appeared, the essence of the article asked whether we need fear of the devil and hell in order to retain good morals and behavior.  The author postulated that our need to form alliances and groups to survive during our long evolution and our learning from family and teachers are what really moderate our behavior and keep us civilized.  I agree.  It is for that reason that I am resolving in this new year to increase my support of Piedmont UU Church which provides resources for our RE program and our minister Robin Tanner.  The adult RE class called “Age-ing to Sage-ing” has just started.

Your Board is also active in keeping Piedmont UU Church strong by its recent decisions.  We have reached out to a wider community by accepting the Piedmont Progressive Preschool as a sponsored group under our bylaws.  They teach children the same principles and morals that are the foundation of Unitarian Universalism.  The Board is in the process of reviewing the policies under which your church operates.  We have created a Healthy Congregation Team to help us remain united as we grow and make important decisions for our future.  We have welcomed Justin Martin who is our new Director of Religious Education and Pastoral Care Minister.  Have you noticed how many more youth are seen in the halls and on the grounds since he came to us?  

Another thing that will make 2014 a great year is the creativity and responsibility that all of the councils and committees have undertaken as we grow in numbers and budget.  As we get bigger, it will be impossible for the Board to make the many day to day decisions that are required to keep Piedmont UU Church running smoothly.  The Board will retain final responsibility by way of the budget and the policies that guide the work of councils and committees.  As currently organized, the Business and Operations Council and the Program Council are the paths through which the Board fulfills its responsibility for oversight.

In summary, I know that 2014 will bring challenges and opportunities but with your help, we are ready to turn them into progress. 

Happy New Year to you-all and may you and Piedmont UU Church have a fruitful and healthy 2014.

Serving you as your Board president,   
Karl Hesse

Saturday, December 28, 2013

Spiritually Speaking: What Dreams Have You Had?

“A great fire burns within me, but no one stops to warm themselves at it, and passers-by only see a wisp of smoke”

― Vincent van Gogh

 

Most artists are easily defined as passionate. We know the hallmarks signs, the fury of creation, the almost madness accompanying dreams, the mania and eccentricities…  Or we think we do, but can we really predict what passionate people act like?  Or better yet, do we know if the closest people to us have great passions?

Van Gogh points this out in his quick assessment that folks only see a wisp of smoke, not the actual fire.  And coming from a widely known passionate man, this vision of a hidden fire tells us something profound.  Perhaps a good deal more of us have a fire within than we would expect.  

 One of the things that drew me into Unitarian Universalism was that my very first congregation was pro-passion.  In our sometimes risk-adverse culture, it felt decidedly counter-cultural to be given permission to share our deepest passions.  What did we truly love in this world?

Getting in touch with our deepest love put us right in touch with our spiritual journeys.  It was a salve to defensive and competitive living, not to mention a balm to monotony and malaise.  

Knowing your fire within forms the essence of your spiritual journey.

This month, and frankly all year, we want to help you discover your passion and put it into action.  In the words of Frederick Beuchneryour calling in this world can be found where your deep passion meets the world’s hunger.

Afraid you don’t have any passion?  Not the creative type?

Work on imagining Bill Gates instead van Gogh then.  Remember passion comes in many forms.  Join us on Sundays in January to discover yours.

 

In faith and passion!

 

Rev. Robin  

Friday, December 27, 2013

January plate collection recipient: Cabarrus Literacy Council

The Social Justice Council has designated the Cabarrus Literacy Council as the January 2014 recipient of the undesignated plate collection. This is the money donated in the collection that is not intended for member's pledges.

The Cabarrus Literacy Council currently has approximately 125 tutor/mentors working with approximately 200 adults in Cabarrus County. Two of our members, Karen Dutton and Anne Laukaitis, are tutors with the Cabarrus Literacy Council. Director Susan Suarez Webster will visit Piedmont on Sunday, January 12, and speak briefly about this work during the 11 a.m. service.

The Social Justice Council researches and identifies one recipient each month for the plate collection, choosing a non-profit whose mission is compatible with our own. Education and the alleviation of poverty through education are important values for UU's.  Contact Karen or Anne if you would like to know more about the Cabarrus Literacy Council.

The donation of the monthly plate collection  began about six years ago and to date, thousands of dollars have been donated to local non-profits. Donations come from all of our members. For more information about the monthly plate collection or to nominate a worthy non-profit, contact Darla Davis, Social Justice Council co-chair. 

Why do we teach adults to read and write and speak English?

4th Annual Buzz Word Spelling Bee The Cabarrus Literacy Council engages adults in Literacy activities because:
Adult men and women in the United States who have fewer than twelve years of education have life expectancies not much better than those of all adults in the 1950s and 1960s, while their highly educated counterparts have experienced a dramatic increase in life expectancy.

8.1 million adults dropped out of school before 8th grade, making GED attainment more difficult.

Since 1983, more than 10 million Americans reached the 12th grade without having learned to read at a basic level. In the same period, more than 6 million Americans dropped out of high school altogether.

Children who have not developed some basic literacy skills by the time they enter school are 3 - 4 times more likely to drop out in later years.

High school dropouts from the class of 2006-07 will cost the United States $329 billion in lost wages, taxes, and productivity over their lifetimes.

Children of parents who had not completed high school scored lower in vocabulary assessments
than children of parents with a high school degree or equivalent.

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Spiritually Speaking: The Agnostic Christmas


From carols to cookies placed beside the tree with milk for Santa, ‘tis the season for all sorts of faith. When I was growing up, if someone asked if you had faith it clearly meant one thing: belief. There was no faith apart from belief. And those among us who may not truly “believe” are the poor forgotten in fairy tales and the outsiders peering through frosted glass in Christmas stories. Those without belief are the object of change in the classic stories. Consider Miracle on 34th Street, even Scrooge-like ridicule of the season, or prize in The Polar Express. But does faith need to be about belief?
Is there a space beyond belief in this season for merriment?
Although I no longer believe in a host of things I once did, I still put up a Christmas tree as well make Christmas cookies. I enjoy the occasional eggnog and even indulge in cinnamon scented pinecones for Christmas décor. I do not feel obligated to gift or go over board, but nor am I on any campaign to keep the Christ in Christmas. I am not offended when strangers wish me Happy Holidays and I gladly honor the wisdom of Hanukkah and Winter Solstice alongside Christmas.
At the same time, I do not believe that a messiah was born 2,000 years ago in December nor do I hold that if I kindle the Yule log it will literally bring back the sun. I am content to endorse metaphor when it comes to the oil in the Temple as well as many other traditional stories of this season.
Does this mean we have no faith in the season, that indeed we’ve lost the reason for the season?
Quite to the contrary, like many of you, I have faith that these small traditions have an important purpose. I have faith, or trust, that putting up the tree each year with family is a moment when we rarely gather together in the quiet of our home and remember the memory of each ornament. It’s an important bittersweet inventory that reminds me of how precious time truly is in our lives. I have faith that kindling the lights of the menorah on our annual Hanukkah service will remind me of what it is to keep the lights alive, and seeing the faces of those in our community share food and connection will do the heart good. I have faith that holding a seed in hand and welcoming the light back will give me hope as the season of night turns to day. I have trust that my New Year’s resolutions may not come true, but they are worthwhile for writing. I will belt out “Gloria” on Christmas Eve, knowing I have heard the sound of angels here on earth, in each tender human voice that offers love and compassion in this season.
This is faith in its origin, from fides, means to have trust in or confidence.
I am not without confidence in my agnostic Christmas. Nor are a great many of us in this community. We can still belt the carols with confidence that the singing does the belly, if not the heart, good. We can put up a tree, or not, and celebrate the light where we discover it. We can kindle fires with the trust that the warmth we knew just a few months earlier will return again. We can take up these traditions knowing they link us not to belief but to people and places that have a magic all their own.
It is confidence in the people, if not the reasons. Trust in the rituals that hold us through winter, and assurance through the little things now done for new purpose.
So Happy Holidays, friends, and Merry Christmas, and Happy Hanukah, and Happy Winter Solstice! May the celebrations of this season nurture your spirit into Spring.
In faith,
Rev. Robin

Saturday, November 30, 2013

Have you ever traveled with friends?

Dear fellow travelers,

Have you ever joined with friends to go on an automobile trip, to hike in a forest, to visit a museum?  Most of us have traveled with friends to do these things.  Such travel is a lot like our journey together at Piedmont UU Church.  We share the costs, the joy and the inspiration as we learn, work together and help others along the way.

Back in 1959 my friend and I took a long trip to the west coast and back.  My friend was in a car wreck and when he received an insurance settlement, he had bought a new 1957 Plymouth.  We struck out on US highway 14 from Minnesota with an army surplus tent, a folding shovel, a gasoline camp stove and a cooler in the trunk.  We covenanted to share expenses including the camping stuff.  We were frugal just like we are at Piedmont UU Church.  We even changed our oil along a dirt road.  I wouldn’t do that today.

Our horizon widened as neither of us had been west of Minnesota. 
We learned about 4 lane roads and medians in Idaho.  Around midnight we pitched our tent in a grove of pines near the highway.  Next morning we realized that we were camping in the median of an Interstate.  Highways that we had previously traveled had been national 2 lane roads.

We came home through Colorado and got close to nature.  We often just rolled out our sleeping bags under the stars.  I awoke one morning in the desert facing a little pack rat who had dragged all kinds of tin foil and bottle caps to the door of his burrow.  He was a junk collector, so he and I had something in common.
Similar to our longer term members at Piedmont UU Church, who built our buildings, my friend had already invested in a car but I had to share gas, oil and other expenses.  We did give rides to several hitch hikers and we did not ask them to pay.  

May your life journey be broadening, happy and educational.   May our church home nourish your spirit and inspire you to support Piedmont UU Church with a share of your time, treasure and talent as you travel with us and we learn together.

Karl

Pastoral Care Associates


The Congregational Care Council has eleven members who have recently received training from Rev. Justin Martin to serve other members as Pastoral Care Associates. These members are now available to members who seek an empathetic and caring listener for a problem or situation they would like to talk about. This is a ministry of Piedmont UU Church, for which there is no charge. Meetings may occur at a neutral place, such as a coffee shop or restaurant – probably not in each other’s homes. The care provided is not intended to be long term but meetings can take place over several months. Confidentiality is assured.

The Pastoral Care Associates are not intended to be therapists or professional counselors but would refer to Rev. Justin if appropriate for further referral, if that is what is needed. Examples of conversations with a Pastoral Care Associate could be a change in job status that is causing stress or the difficulties of aging parents. The Congregational Care Council has also gathered information about community resources that may be of use of members.

Members who received the training include Michelle Murphy, Val Whitfield, Cheryl Midkiff, Claudia and Alan Perkinson, Joyce Lemmond, Connie Byrne, Helen Patil, Alan Davis, July Dancing, and Merna Hesse. Nancy Delux and Anne Laukaitis, co-chairs of the council, also participated in the training but will not actively participate as Pastoral Care Associates.

If you are interested in this ministry, please contact Rev. Justin at Justin@puuc.org, and he will refer you to one of the Pastoral Care Associates.

Submitted by: Members of the Congregational Care Council: Rev. Justin, Nancy Delux, Michelle Murphy and Anne Laukaitis

Monday, November 4, 2013

The Cookbooks Are Coming!


In January of 2013 the core cookbook committee, Mimi Davis, Merna Hesse, Helen Patil, and Claudia Perkinson met for breakfast to talk about putting together a first ever cookbook by members and friends of PUUC. After contacting the Morris Cookbook Company in Kearney, Nebraska for information, the committee began to collect recipes from the congregation. Countless people submitted recipes on forms provided by the company that adhered to a specific format, on scraps of paper, or from neatly typewritten collections. All the recipes were collected, divided into categories, transcribed, edited, and proofread by many additional volunteers.

THE WELCOME TABLE was taking shape. A history of the Chalice was written, photographs taken on church property were chosen for the dividers, the cover design was decided upon, and finally, on October 4th, the contract for publication of 200 cookbooks was agreed to and the book submitted to the printer for preparation of a proof copy. The books will be available in late November or early December.
Please join us at THE WELCOME TABLE. Containing almost 300 recipes, including appetizers, soups, salads, main dishes, deserts, breads and beverages, the book is a wonderful collection of favorites at $15.00 per book with proceeds after expenses to benefit PUUC. To reserve your copy or copies please contact Michelle Murphy, michelsea@carolina.rr.com or Val Whitfield, Valerie@ypblifecoaching.com. Please make your check payable to PUUC and put “Cookbook” on the memo line. The cookbook is also available as an e-book.
Michelle Murphy for the Cookbook Committee

Have you ever joined with friends to go on a trip?

Have you ever joined with friends to go on a trip, to hike in a forest, to visit a museum. . etc.?

Most of us have and will join with friends to do these things. Krissa has just returned from such a trip with her husband. She expanded her horizons, visited old friends, learned new things and restored her spirit. Such are the benefits of travel on earth and actually also the travel through life.

It is more fun, more economical and more beneficial to journey with friends. That is why I have joined you-all at PUUC in my journey through life. The horizons of my experiences have expanded greatly by joining a Welcoming Congregation. I cannot say that I have visited old friends in PUUC because I had not known any of you before I joined back in 2009. Then again I have made a lot of older friends. Does that count? I clearly have learned many new things, some from Rev. Robin’s sermons, some from the small group Ethical Explorations and Chalice Circles and many from just being and working and laughing with you-all. PUUC is us and you have nurtured my spirit. I have participated in churches most of my life and always remained analytical and rarely found an emotional experience. At PUUC, I find myself with tears of joy. I have found a home here and my chores at my home are not a burden. They are not easy and they can cause me to sweat but like going on a hike in a rugged forest, the work is fun and rewarding when we travel together even if it sometimes is a struggle to keep up.


Karl

Spiritually Speaking: Following the Wheel of the Year

This time of year is extraordinary in North Carolina. It is part of what inspired me to move here: a warmer, green place with a gorgeous autumn and little snow? Sold! Add in an awesome church and it was a very easy decision.

Bright oranges, reds, and yellows fill the wide sky until they suddenly fall to the ground. The hazy days give way to beautiful bursting sunsets and the moon is full of a harvest promise.

As surely as it is a time of beauty it is also a time of paradox: set apart as a season of remembering as well as letting go; of mourning as well as celebrating. If by chance you feel pulled in many directions, then perhaps you have well embraced the spirit of this season.

This fall invites us into a vivid rendering of the cycles of life. Vibrant rich greens fade into brilliant colors that are released to the earth far too quickly. The coldness of night hits us suddenly and we remark, “Wow fall is really here!” It is an invitation to connect our souls again with the earth and to listen for tender truths tucked away in books that go untouched in summer, underneath leaves that hide the dying grass, and behind the starker silhouettes.

It’s amazing how our own lives follow nature’s rhythm. We depend upon the earth. Even with all of our progress, we still must change dress and habit to protect our fragile bodies, as it gets colder. If we were living even a hundred years ago, we would have been much more attuned to the changing seasons. Now with global transportation, we notice little change in the grocery store products or our eating habits. Well, except for the appearance of the pumpkin spiced latte and the delightful parade of pumpkinanized products! Even as our food may not change, we can’t deny the changing light, the colder temperature, and the color all around.

If we are wise recipients of creation, we pause in this time of year to listen to the ancient truths. We remind our bodies to slow down and to remember those who have gone before. We cannot set the pace for this remembering. Eventually, some gratitude is kindled within us. It is a gratitude for the long line of creation that has made our living possible. And then, nature invites us to let go of what we cannot hold and cannot control. The colors fade, the leaves decompose and earth returns to earth. We are aware that life is brief and fragile. Joy and a tender sadness can touch us this time of year.

At last as this season closes just before the dawn of winter, nature bids us to consider how we can give back in this season of harvest, of how our lives in the cycle of life continue the great circle. The time is short before the earth freezes and seeds cannot be planted any more for next year. The time is short; we see, for own lives to find the points where something greater may be planted, a harvest for those who follow.

I am grateful friends to be following the wheel of the year with you. Peace and compassion around you in this beautiful, tumultuous time of year.

Blessings of harvest,

Rev. Robin

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Telling it Like it is: A Risk Worth Taking

After an exhaustive work week, the last thing I wanted to do on a Friday evening was to talk about race. To talk about race would require the kind of emotional muscle and mental dexterity that the previous four days had depleted.

My thoughts were that in order to talk about race, I had to know what I was talking about. Being African American could not by default make me an expert on racism. I had intended to jot down some key points and brush up on the history of black Unitarian Universalists. Instead, ill prepared and rushed, I entered and scanned the sanctuary for possible alliances. Yes, I anticipated a battle, no matter how politely fought, and I prayed that there would be reinforcements.

My defensiveness was confusingly in concert with the small voice of optimism that reminded me that this was indeed a sanctuary where I could safely say my truth. I did not expect to be insulted or called a liar. Our community is not one to put another person's inherent worth in distress. I envisioned that naming why we there, racism, would illicit the kind of silence that causes you to look down at the empty hands in your lap to avoid the eyes of the namer. Yes, there were times when this happened, but there were also times when the same empty hands became willing cups to be filled with awareness and understanding.

Whether in whispers, raised tones, passionate responses, or in the quietness of a nodding head and knowing eyes, reciprocity filled the space. Our anger, hurt, sadness, frustration, confusion, and yes, defensiveness, were shared and received. Still, naming makes you tired.

The self- imposed pressure from my perceptual inner-dialogue that questions if I suffer from racial sensitivity or from victim syndrome or from a variety of other insecurity based conditions, is fatiguing enough. Saying that exploring racism is "doing the hard work," is not a misnomer. While I don't diminish the effort it takes for whites to engage in this conversation, as someone who represents the "reason why we are here," it is akin to carrying an anvil across a tight rope.  

Seeking acknowledgment of this weight is a step that requires taking risks. With taking risks comes fear. Naming the thing we are most afraid of does not make it go away. In fact, it opens the shutters and lets the light flood the room.

On that Friday evening, I pushed my truth through the thick haze of fear without knowing if it safely met its destination. Still, like any experienced mariner, the truth has a way of finding the shore when the fog lifts.

Until,

Crystal Kimble

Friday, September 27, 2013

Spiritually Speaking: A Generous People

We are a generous people.  I know this from the people who are in our congregation, people who inspire me.

There is the man who believes that giving time to weed and craft each corner into an outdoor shrine is a spiritual act.  He spends hours at our congregation so that someone will walk through our doors and be inspired, touched, perhaps even healed by our natural environment.

There is the woman who gives generously of her resources.  After taxes, bills, food, and life essentials are paid for, she shares with us each month over half of what is left.  It is $20, and I am humbled by this act, placed in the basket each month.  This money helps us continue to care for each other and our community, to truly make the world we live in a better place for our children.

There is the person who works all week, sometimes with 12-hour days, in finance.  They come in after this work week to help us with financials, to give us skills that we likely couldn’t afford; they ensure the checks are cut to the charities, the staff, and the power company to keep the church lit.

There are many more I couldn’t name.  Some greet before each church service, being the face of welcome to everyone who comes through our doors.  Some sit on teams or committees and search for the right words to tell the world who we are.  Some clean-up the kitchen and make coffee.  Some come into the office and make copies, send emails, and welcome visitors.

We are a generous people.

This month with the theme of service, we will celebrate the generosity within our community as well as the gifts many of us offer outside of our community.  It is said that many progressive people actually tithe, the old practice of giving 10% of one’s income to the church.  We tithe by giving both to our congregation and the rest out in the world!  Charitable organizations, non-profits, and advocacy groups are the recipients of countless Unitarian Universalist supporters.

We are often quiet in our generosity, private about our giving.  Nonetheless, we are a generous people who believe in the act of service.

So why do we believe in generosity?  Why do we hold up service as one of the basic elements of our faith?

It’s true that some of us were raised with the values of generosity and service, but many of us were also raised in the consumer culture of more and more.  Yet we’ve made bold, different decisions.  Why?

Come join us in exploring the deep roots of service in Unitarian Universalism, something that is even crafted into our symbol the chalice.  We’ll consider how to sustain service for our children and their children, and celebrate service in our very midst!

With gratitude for the journey and companions on the path,
Rev. Robin

Saturday, September 7, 2013

Spiritually Speaking: The Case for Hope

According to Emily Dickinson, it’s a thing with feathers. Nietzsche thought it “the worst of all evils,” while Martin Luther King believed it formed the foundation for a just world. 

Hope has a mixed history.  The story of the world can easily be told from a pessimistic or optimistic viewpoint.  Frankly, the evidence of history is in the eye of the beholder.  The details don’t tell the same story as the “moral arc of the universe” to quote Unitarian Theodore Parker (later quoted by Martin Luther King Jr.). 

In seminary it was a popular question, “Is the world getting better?” or put another way, “what is the case for hope?”  The problem of course is that the case for hope is not an evidential case.  No defense attorney could line up the alibi for the times when clearly the world has not moved toward the common good or hopeful vision.  Yet, no prosecutor could deny the fuel behind some of the world’s greatest visionaries.  Hope does not rest upon the world eventually being righted but rather in a vision for the world that compels action.

When Martin Luther King placed his life in the hands of hope, he did not wait for his dream to unfold.  Rather, hope was the vision before him that called him through the troubling nights and hot, fearful days.  If hope is a gift apart from our action, then it is magical thinking and impossible opiate.  But if hope is the substance that propels our lives toward the next and the next day and in so doing makes our lives count in ways we could never see in the daily details, then hope has a case.

This month we’ll consider the case for hope.  Is it an attitude?  Is it an act of will?  Are you born with hope, or do you learn to be hopeful?

Come join us for the first theme of the year as we begin our spiritual journeys together.  We hope (wink, wink) you will join us!

In faith and appreciation for the journey we share,

Rev. Robin

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Welcoming Congregation Renewal


What is a Welcoming Congregation?
The Welcoming Congregation Program is a volunteer program for Unitarian Universalist congregations that want to take intentional steps to become more welcoming and inclusive of people with marginalized sexual orientations and gender identities.

First launched in 1990, the program grew out of an understanding that widespread prejudices and ignorance about LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer) people existed within Unitarian Universalism, which resulted in the exclusion of LGBTQ people from our congregations.
Today, 66% of U.S. UU (Unitarian Universalist) congregations and 94% of Canadian UU congregations are recognized as Welcoming Congregations. The program is supported by LGBTQ Ministries.

For Piedmont UUC (Piedmont Unitarian Universalist Church) this began in the Fall of 2004, when the Piedmont UU middle school youth protested that the ages 4-18 Social Justice Sunday programs were boring. The senior high echoed their complaints. Subsequent meetings with each group led to a combined brainstorming session where both groups (between 15 and 20 youth) decided they wanted to work together on social justice efforts with more meaning. Notes from those meetings document that they wanted to work on something that they knew could make a difference, that required more than an hour on Sunday, and that introduced them firsthand to the people affected by the injustice. They decided to focus their efforts on justice for people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender.

Their subsequent efforts, under the leadership of Hugh Hammond, Susan Seithel, and Su Cummings, included discussions with local activists, a week-end long youth conference on LGBT issues, appearances before the Charlotte City Council, and active cooperation with LGBT organizations such as Time Out Youth, Charlotte Pride, and the Charlotte LGBT Community Alliance.

In January of 2006 the youth and the adults of the Social Justice Committee combined to kick off the series of 10 workshops which ended in May. Approximately 60 members joined the program in whole or in part. In November, 2006, the Piedmont UU congregation voted unanimously to become a Welcoming Congregation and the recognition was granted by the UUA (Unitarian Universalist Association) in early 2007.

Welcoming Congregation Renewal Program

Being recognized as a Welcoming Congregation was just the beginning, and was a commitment to the ever-ongoing work of being welcoming. LGBTQ Ministries recommends that congregations go through a Welcoming Congregation Program or a renewal program every five to ten years. A lot of turnover and changes to congregational life can happen over the years, and the wider culture also changes quickly with respect to sexual orientation and gender identity.

Our renewal program will consist of 7 workshops, adapted from the UUA’s program. They will be held on the 4th Sunday of each month beginning in September (skipping December). There are a variety of workshops designed to help open us to other members and the greater community in a safe and loving way. There will be much self-discovery involved; over time much growth is expected.
We hope many of you will join us in this renewal of our journey of understanding. If you would like more information, or wish to help, please contact any of the following:
Barbara Hollingsworth barbdh@aol.com 704-455-5495
Susie Benner sbenner974@aol.com 704-882-2059
Alan Perkinson alan.perkinson@yahoo.com 704-489-6309
Claudia Perkinson perkyc48@gmail.com 704-489-6309
Joan Thieda jthieda@carolina.rr.com 704-502-1340

Saturday, August 31, 2013

Social Justice Pilgrimage to Guatemala


“No journey carries one far unless,
as it extends into the world around us,
it goes an equal distance into the world within.”
~ Lillian Smith ~

With warm eyes, a smiling face and open arms, five year old Nicolasa welcomed us into the small concrete block home she shared with her mother, Magdalena, in Chuk Muk, Guatemala.  As I looked into Nicolasa’s expectant and eager face and then into the weary, prematurely aged face of her Mother, I painfully saw Nicolasa’s future.  My heart cracked open. 
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On Sunday, July 21, 2013, a team of 8 adults and 1 youth from Piedmont UU, and 1 adult from the UU Fellowship of Lake Norman (UUFLKN) left Charlotte on an exploratory trip to Guatemala for our Social Justice Council’s World Neighbors project.  Those team members were Ann Marie Alderman, Darla Davis, Emma Gardiner-Parks, Holly Summers, Mimi Davis, Pam Whistler, Rev Robin Tanner, Tim Brown, Virginia Gil-Rivas and from UUFLKN, Amy Hartman.  We were met in Guatemala by three additional team members, Lea Pellet and Lynn Thompson with the Maasai American Organization and later in the week by Rev. Nancy Allison of Holy Covenant United Church of Christ, Charlotte.

Many months of work and planning had preceded this flight.  Some of us had attended conversational Spanish classes taught by member Amanda Howard.  We’d had conference calls and done preparatory work. Lou Gardiner-Parks had exchanged our dollars for the Guatemalan currency of Quetzales.  In many ways we were prepared.  But with our feet on the ground in Guatemala we all knew we had much to learn.  And that was exactly why we were there!

We had been inspired to make this trip by the work of our late member Jodie Kacer.  For many years, Jodie had worked with the Maasai American Organization (MAO) in Guatemala and Kenya.  She frequently talked with great passion about this work.  On several occasions, Jodie brought handcrafted goods from Guatemala and Kenya to PUUC to sell in support of women in those countries.  Near the end of Jodie’s life, she expressed her hope that Piedmont UU would find a way to continue to support the women and children of Guatemala.

The PUUC Social Justice council had been talking about broadening and balancing our local social justice work with a global component.  As we watched films like “Brother Towns”, we were noticing how our laws and the actions of individuals and corporations in the US are connected to and impact people in other countries. We were noticing how what we do here flows out and then comes back to us through the interconnected web of all existence.  And so, a growing interest in learning more about those connections developed alongside the dream that Jodie had as she died.

With intentionality, we went exploring and learning. We approached this trip as a spiritual pilgrimage.  According to author Phil Cousineau in The Art of Pilgrimage: A Seeker’s Guide to Making Travel Sacred, “a pilgrimage is a spiritual exercise … a journey of risk and renewal.  For a journey without challenge has no meaning; one without purpose has no soul.”  So we set out with open and willing hearts on this journey of risk and renewal.

Our PUUC team was deeply grounded in Unitarian Universalism.  Ann Marie is a UU minister who would began serving the UU Church of Greensboro on August 1st.  Darla Davis has been a UU for over 30 years and has served PUUC as President and in many other roles.  Emma Gardiner-Parks grew up in our congregation.  Holly Summers is a new member and brought that fresh perspective to our group.  Mimi Davis is a long time UU and has been a member of several UU Congregations.  While at PUUC, Mimi has led the Fellowship Committee, the Peace Alliance and the Garden Group for many years, as well as served on the Religious Services Council and many other committees and roles.  Pam Whistler is also a long time UU, is currently a member of our board, a past Fundraising Co-chair and has served on the Southeast District board.  Tim Brown has been a member of PUUC for several years co-leading our canvas, participating in Chalice Circles and the Men’s group.  Virginia Gil-Rivas has also been a member for several years, leading Interweave and currently co-chairing  the Social Justice Council with Darla Davis.

As humans, when we see problems and suffering, our brains, of course, immediately want to formulate solutions.  It’s uncomfortable to just be with the suffering of others and so we are tempted to ease our discomfort by applying solutions.  But we had covenanted with each other to stay open and trust the local wisdom to guide us.  So while ideas were flying, we held them loosely without getting too attached to any one.

Our explorations led us to a multi-faceted program run by the Mayan Families organization; the Open Door Children’s Library and Education Center; an Elder Care Center run by Sharing the Dream: Hospitalito Atitlan, a private non-profit hospital; and Escuela Privada David LaMotte a private preschool and first grade.  We went to the villages of Chuk Muk, Chacaya, San Jorge and the towns of Santiago and Panajachel.  

At the end of our time in Guatemala we met to discuss, compare and begin to form a common direction for what might be next and with which partners. Some hearts were drawn to each program.  While individual team members may want to support efforts of one of the other organizations, the Mayan Families Organization was the one that everyone agreed offered the most promise for a sustainable program.  So as we continue our exploration and research this year, we will be looking most closely at the possibilities with Mayan Families as a potential partner.

To share more of the impact of our trip, the Guatemala exploration team will offer an evening of photos, stories and food in October.  Please watch for the announcement later in September and mark your calendar!  You won’t want to miss seeing the beautiful faces of the Guatemala people and the lush, rugged countryside. And you certainly won’t want to miss hearing how each team member was touched deeply by this transformative experience.

Nicolasa
Magdalena
Mimi Davis getting a warm welcome from Nicolasa as we entered the home she shares with her Mother, Magdelena. 
Rev. Robin and Virginia Gil-Rivas of PUUC, Amy Hartman of the UU fellowship of Lake Norman, Lea Pellet of the Maasai American Organization and our Guatemalan translator Fely Ratzán as we inspect the school building expansion in Chacaya, Guatemala. 
Tim Brown talks to the children at the school in San Jorge, Guatemala, operated by the Mayan Families Organization. 
Pam Whistler gives a Mayan boy his first look through binoculars at the Mayan Families run school in San Jorge, Guatemala.
Emma Gardiner-Parks listens as a young student explains his work at the Mayan Families Organization's school in San Jorge, Guatemala. 
Rev Ann Marie Alderman of PUUC and Lynn Thompson of Maasai American Organization discuss what the are learning about the woodworking classroom provided by the Mayan Families Organization. 
Holly Summers asks a young student about her work at the San Jorge school operated by Mayan Families Organization.
Rev Robin has the attention of a young scholar at the Mayan Families School in San Jorge, Guatemala. 
The children at the Chuk Muk school run by the Mayan Families Organization all want to be the next one Virginia Gil-Rivas picks up.
A Mayan woman gives Rev. Robin a spontaneous hug and kiss when she sees Robin on the street in traditional Mayan clothing. Tim Brown looks on with a smile. 
Rev Robin lights the chalice for our closing evening's spiritual reflection, with (l-r) Holly Summers, Virginia Gil-Rivas, Rev. Ann Marie Alderman, Tim Brown and Mimi Davis. 
Our hopes for the future work of our congregations in Guatemala are launched inside (environmentally safe) lanterns. (l-r) Tim Brown; Fely Ratzán and her Mother; Rev Ann Marie Alderman; Rev Robin; Rev Nancy Allison of Holy Covenant United Church of Christ, Charlotte; Pam Whistler, Amy Hartman of UU Fellowship of Lake Norman; and Lea Pellett of Maasai American Organization. 

Thursday, August 29, 2013

August 15 Board Meeting Highlights




At the August 15 Board meeting, your PUUC Board:

  • Approved Joan Thieda as a replacement on the Nomination Committee  
  • Approved Ministers’ titles to be Lead Minister and Minister of Education and Care
  • Decided on Board Focus:   Seeking clarity, fostering community 
  •  Decided on tentative dates for Town Hall meetings
  • Discussed book Governance and Ministry - Rethinking Board Leadership by Dan Hotchkiss
Please ask any Board member for more information about these items or other Board business.
In faith,
Karl Hesse, Lucy Neel, Melissa Avery-Weir, Sam Treadaway, Carol Scales, Evan Nash and Pam Whistler
PUUC Board of Trustees